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Helping Each Other

In the next week, many of us are going to be receiving stimulus checks from the government. For some of us, this money could not come soon enough. For others of us, we, quite honestly, don’t need these extra resources. I want to talk with both groups and, I know, whenever a preacher starts talking about money, most of us check out and head for the hills. I wouldn’t blame you but stay with me for a bit.
 
First, if you part of the large group of people in our country that could really use this help at this time. Be grateful and use this money to support your family, meet your needs, and feel no guilt about doing so. Dave Ramsey frequently speaks of the need for all of us to maintain the four walls in our life: food, shelter, clothing, and transportation. I would add a fifth: your health. If right now because of reduction in hours, loss of work, or increased financial insecurity, these foundations in your life are threatened then please manage these extra resources well and keep your family safe. This is true both now and in the future. Maybe right now, your financial situation is looking okay, but you don’t know if this will still be true come May or even into the summer, then I would encourage you to take this money, put it into a bank account and hold it as an emergency fund. If come fall, the crisis never comes, then you can move onto the challenge I have below.
 
If you are part of another group in our country that doesn’t need this extra financial stimulus, then I want to challenge you to consider how you might bless your neighbor and our community at this time. I know it is tempting to want to use the money to buy a new flat screen T.V. or upgrade the lawnmower. Consider the possibility that you might have been blessed to bless others and think about how you might do that. Here are just a few ideas for you to consider:
 
  • There are many organizations in our community on the front lines helping. In Galesburg, the F.I.S.H. Food Pantry is not able to accept physical donations but are in need of financial gifts so they can buy food for those in need. The Salvation Army is still offering its food pantry. Safe Harbor is still serving families in the midst of domestic violence. The YMCA is serving in many ways. And I am sure you can probably think of many others.
  • What about your neighbor? Have they lost hours or lost their job entirely? Maybe you could help them out.
  • Do you know someone who is a first-responder or working in health care? Maybe you could buy them some gift cards to local restaurants, so they don’t have to cook a meal on top of the stress they are already feeling. Or call up a lawn care company and pay to have their yard mowed for them.
  • Are you still going to eat out? Consider giving that waitress or waiter an extra-large tip.
 
There are many different ways we can help. These are just a few. If you have other ideas, I would love to hear them.
 
Blessings,
Stephen

What can you do?

Dear Friends,

One of the challenges many of us are feeling is the sense of helplessness that there is nothing we can do. It is easy to feel like we are at the whim of our government officials and the daily whiplash of recommendations and advice.

I want to say to you that you are not helpless. There are things you can do. Here are just a few ideas:

Show your Heart
Put paper hearts in your window. It has gone national, but Heart Hunters started right here in Galesburg.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/326431341651785/
https://www.kwqc.com/content/news/Galesburg-woman-at-the-heart-of-worldwide-virtual-scavenger-hunt-569049201.html

Get Connected
The United Way of Knox County has set up the GetCONNECTED site to help organize those interested in volunteering.
https://myforefront.galaxydigital.com/

Go to Work
Are you part of the essential workforce? You can help the community and your family by going to work and doing what you do.

Stay Home
The Governor of Illinois has advised all persons to “shelter-in-place” and avoid going out unless necessary to get food, medical care, or to go to work. You can help your community by staying home and reducing the potential for the spread of the virus.

Check on Your Neighbor
If you know people in high-risk categories: elderly, those with health challenges like cancer, diabetes, immune-suppressed or respiratory issues, etc. Check-in on them to see if they should not going out and offer to pick up groceries or medicine for them.

Connect
Call/FaceTime with people you love to stay connected, but don’t insist on in-person visits. Be creative in how you can connect differently than your normal routine with people. Who can you add to your circle of connection? If you are not personally affected in your health with COVID-19, choose to continue to stay connected with people. Don’t isolate for the sake of isolation, your mental health will thank you for this decision.

Make a Plan
It is easy to feel like one day is the same as the next. Make a plan for what you are going to do today. Then work your plan. 

Learn Something New
Many online learning companies are making their courses available for free or significantly reduced. Here is one from N.T. Wright: Faith Working Through Love
But there are many more.

Show Gratitude
As you are out getting groceries, filling your gas tank, going to the doctor, etc. Be gracious to those who are serving you. They have families too. They feel the same anxieties. They are working so you get what you need or stay healthy. They are working to provide for their families like you are.

Do you know a police officer, paramedic, firefighter, doctor, nurse, or cashier? Send them a message: THANK YOU!

Disconnect and Breathe
Disconnect: Take a break from the continuous pandemic news. Turn off the T.V., put your phone down, and get off the computer.

Breathe: Sit in a comfortable chair. Close your eyes and breathe in slowly and deeply through your nose. Hold it and then exhale slowly out of your mouth. Do this for one minute. Have an Apple Watch? You can set it to remind you to stop and breathe throughout the day.

Go Outside: The weather today is sunny and warm in Galesburg. Go outside. Walk around the block or just sit in a chair outside your door. Breath in the fresh air.

Dream
We can be so tempted to want to get life back to normal that we miss the great things we have learned in this time. We have learned to connect with each other in greater and more meaningful ways. We have seen the beauty of creation healed as some industries have paused. If you have not already, look up the videos of the canals in Venice. Here is one. We have learned that “doing church” does not require a building. Dream about how life could be better because of what we have learned through this experience. It will not always be like this.

Do you have other ideas? Please share them.

Pastor Stephen

Giving Credit: The seed of many of these suggestions came from a message Beth Cossin, Pastor at Heritage Church, sent to the congregation in a letter.

Dying on Field

Dear Friends,

Last week I opened the topic of our citizenship as people of God’s Kingdom. Today I continue these thoughts.

Missionary Graves

Wesleyan Missionary Graveyard in Sierra Leone

Missions has change a lot in the past hundred plus years. There was a time when missionaries boarded ships to head to distant lands knowing they would probably never return to the land of their birth. The symbol of this commitment was what they choose to pack their stuff in. Not a suit case or steamer trunk but a coffin. The pioneers walked away from the privilege and position of their home countries to unite with peoples across the oceans. This is the kind of commitment Paul is speaking of the profound mystery of Christ and the church (read last week’s Milk Can).

Today it is rare for a missionary to die “on field.” Terms and length of commitments have gotten shorter and shorter. Missionaries enjoy phone calls, e-mail, and even the ability to Skype with family. Today one can be a missionary without ever leaving and cleaving to a new people. While this has opened missionary work to many who would never have gone, it can dilute the true depth of Christ’s call onto the life of everyone who calls themselves a Christian. As the German pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer says in his book The Cost of Discipleship, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.”

One does not have to go to foreign lands to follow Christ. For many, a generation ago, the call to leave and cleave meant joining those in the Civil Rights Movement. They marched alongside their African American neighbors and boarded Freedom Buses to lay down their lives to battle injustice.

Today many are being called to identify with and carry the burden of the immigrant in our own nation. Simultaneously giving up and using their position, power and prestige to care for their neighbor. More on the work of our own denomination can be found here: http://www.wesleyan.org/1045/faq-on-immigrants-and-immigration-questions-and-answers

Bonhoeffer would also say being a Christian is about “. . . courageously and actively doing God’s will.” Many times I have prayed those words at the end of The Lord’s Prayer, “Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” What if God intends to answer that prayer through you and I? What is God’s will courageously and actively calling you to?

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

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