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Standing Strong in Difficult Times

Jesus Suffering

Temptation
Testing
Struggles
Crisis
Death
Pain
Suffering
Confusion

We all face them. We all experience them. Why? We are in a world broken by sin and we have an enemy actively working to destroy us. Satan has a wonderful plan for your life. His plan is to kill you, to steal from you, and to destroy you (John 10:10). What he cannot take from you he will lie to you to get you to give it up. After all, he is a liar and he is the father of lies (John 8:44). How do you know Satan is lying? His lips are moving.

How do we stand strong in difficult times? Follow the example of Jesus. In Matthew 4 and Luke 4 Jesus demonstrates the first thing about standing strong when being tested to one’s limits: Know who you are. Prior to Jesus being led by the Holy Spirit into the desert where he is tempted by Satan to abandon his divine mission Jesus is baptized by John the Baptist in the Jordan River. As he is coming out of the water the heavens open and we hear a voice say, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased” (Matthew 3:17). Jesus’ knowledge of himself as God’s son, the assurance of his father’s love and pleasure provide the foundation on which Jesus stands in his times of testing. It is our foundation as well. Do you know who you are?

  • You are Christ’s friend. (John 15:15)
  • You are a joint heir with Christ, sharing His inheritance with Him. (Romans 8:17)
  • You are God’s workmanship – His handiwork – born anew in Christ to do His work. (Ephesians 2:10)
  • You are chosen of God, holy and dearly loved. (Colossians 3:12 / 1 Thessalonians 1:4)
  • You are an enemy of the devil. (1 Peter 5:8)
  • You are a child of God (John 1:12)
  • You have the right to come boldly before the throne of God to find mercy and grace in time of need. (Hebrews 4:16)
  • You are the recipient of eternal life. (John 3:16)
  • You have been redeemed and forgiven of all your sins. The debt against you has been canceled.  (Colossians 1:13-14)

And so much more!

One of Satan’s greatest lies is to cause us to doubt the love of God and our identity as children of God during times of suffering and testing. We stand firm in these times by remembering who we are and who God is and never letting go.

Do you know who you are?

Blessings,
Stephen

An unlikely person of faith

three crosses at sunrise

Faith sometimes comes in unlikely places, in unlikely ways, in unlikely people. No person in history may have had a more unlikely experience of faith than the man who hung on the cross beside Jesus. Suffering his own just punishment, as he would describe it, he would be the first to see Jesus’ death on the cross as something more than a great hopeless tragedy. The Roman Centurion would witness Jesus’ death and declare, “Surely this man was the Son of God” but there is no indication his statement was anything more than observing a tragic loss or that had any future significance for the life of the centurion.

Peter had at one time declared of Jesus, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God” but he was nowhere to be found on this day having fled with the other disciples. No, the first man to see Jesus’ death as victory would be the man hanging beside him. In simple, incredible words he would make his request of Jesus, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” In response to this man’s incredible faith, he would hear Jesus’ words “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.” Salvation had come to the man suffering beside Jesus.

What happened to the thief hanging beside Jesus in the next moments? Did anything change for him? In one respect, no. Nothing changed for this man. He still hung on a cross, people still hurled insults at him. Salvation came, but suffering did not end. He was not in that moment lifted from the cross. He did not even experience a quicker, easier death. His body still writhed in pain and as the shadows grew long his legs would still be broken to speed his death. Nothing changed and yet everything changed. This man could know in his heart that his death was not the end. He might say as Paul does in 1 Corinthians, “Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting” (15:55)?

As Christians, we are often tempted to paint faith as a “Get out of Jail Free Card” on human suffering and trials. While we may not say it so explicitly, we live as though we believe if we only say a little prayer then any problems we might have in this life will be magically taken from us and we will live life in perfect harmony. How do I know this? Because we panic when suffering comes and have a crisis in our faith. Faith doesn’t take away pain. Faith changes the lens through which we see our pain. Faith did not take away the man on the cross’ pain. Faith enabled him to see his pain through the lens of Jesus’ promise to be with him in paradise.

John Wesley would say of early Methodists, “Our people die well.” So did the thief. He died well because he had met the Lord of life. May we not only die well but live well, living life through the lens of the promise that “weeping may remain for a night but rejoicing comes in the morning” (Psalm 30:5) for in the morning, Jesus says, you will be with me in paradise.

Blessings,
Stephen

 

 

Giving credit where it is due:
The concept for this series of blog posts and its accompanying sermon series draw from the masterful work, Seven Words to the Cross: A Lenten Study for Adults by J. Ellsworth Kalas.

A Little Vegas at the Cross

vegas dice

There, at the foot of the cross, while Jesus hung suffering and dying, the soldiers turned the scene into a little Vegas. Gambling away Jesus’ clothes in a game of chance.

What do people do when someone is dying? It isn’t only first-century soldiers that do monstrous things. Sometimes while a mother is dying, the children outside the hospital door are arguing over who will get the china and jewelry. Family members will sometimes place mom or dad in a nursing home, figuring they are never getting out, they are as good as dead, and then strip the home of all the valuables and maybe even go so far as to sell the home and take the assets all while telling mom or dad nothing of their actions. As far as they tell them, everything is as it was when they left and one day, when they get out, they can return to their home. A home in which another person is now living in.

It is not just families that behave this way. We have seen the crowds behave monstrously as well. A city is devastated by a fire, flood or tornado, and people will come into the area to dig through the debris, break into homes and business to take what they can get. They compound the tragedy all the while seemingly oblivious to the suffering that is occurring around them.

When Jesus died on the cross, all of heaven and hell stood still and watched with wonder. Time stood still except for a group of men, gambling away his clothes at the foot of the cross. Jesus had only a few pieces of clothing, but they didn’t wait for him to die. They divided his meager estate amongst themselves and gambled away what could not be divided.

These soldiers were not the only people at the foot of the cross that day. As Jesus writhed in agony, and they gambled away his clothes, close by was Jesus mother. As a parent, I cannot imagine what it would be like to witness the execution of my own child. It is a place my heart and mind cannot go. But there she was at the cross. Suffering. Why couldn’t they have given the tunic to her? The only thing left to hold onto, to remember her son. Wouldn’t you think the soldiers would have shown at least some mercy to Jesus’ mother? This was not her plan for her son to die this way. She had even on one occasion tried to come with Jesus’ brothers and take him home, figuring he was out of his mind. Mary tried to protect her son.

If we had the chance to question these man afterward they likely would have responded with puzzled bewilderment at our offense. They had a duty to be completed and their years of being soldiers made them indifferent to the suffering and agony going on around them. They were practical men. For them, a garment represented several days wages. These were not wealthy men. They were grunt soldiers in the Roman army. For us, we have closets full of clothes and the thought of wearing the clothes of an executed man is repulsive to our senses. But these men had very little. Likely only one or two garments to wear themselves. Clothes were a big financial investment. Even if they couldn’t wear the clothes of Jesus, they could, at least, sell them.

We are not really that different than them. We have all trained our minds to see somethings and to not see others. Most of the time we live our lives with our minds on automatic pilot. Without it, we would go crazy. But what are we missing while we are not seeing? Those soldiers had become conditioned to the filth, agony, and brutality of death on a cross. So much so they could play games at the foot of the cross.

The more we watch violence. We become accustomed to it and we are no longer shocked or disturbed by it. Therefore, to grab our attention video games and television writers have to push further and further the graphically explicit and violent envelope. It is the only way to stand out, the only way to get our attention because we have all seen it before. Playboy magazine no longer has nude models in the magazines. I am going to have to take their word for it. I have never opened the pages of a Playboy magazine and I am certainly not going to start now. But in giving their reason for making the change it was simple. Nudity and sexually charged images have become so common in our society that the pictures in their magazine failed to excite and their subscriptions were dropping off. The prevalence of pornography free available on-line has the product they are selling no longer worth looking at.

It is easy for us to pass judgment on past generations. We wonder how it was that nations could have allowed child labor to take place. How could people have become so immune to the death and mutilation of children in the mills and factories as the industrial revolution swelled? We stand in confusion our a person could sit in church and hear the message of God’s love for all. How could they hear the story of the good Samaritan and then go home to torture their slaves? Or how could people stand by and allow the Holocaust to happen? How could they see the train cars of people and yet not see what was happening?

Sometimes the answer is as simple and as complicated as to say, they acted according to the way they had been conditioned, acted according to the way they had trained their minds to work. How have we trained our minds to see somethings and to not see others? What will future generations look back on us and ask how it was that we could not see the suffering that was right before our eyes? What will they say about our ambivalence to the unborn or say about our growing billionaires on the backs of workers not being paid enough to live on? How have we become indifferent to those around us?

Stephen
Giving credit where it is due:
The concept for this series of blog posts and its accompanying sermon series draw from the masterful work, Seven Words to the Cross: A Lenten Study for Adults by J. Ellsworth Kalas.

When Christians are Killed

Pray for Egypt

Dear Friends,

Over the last few days many Christians have been shocked by the images from a video showing 21 Egyptian Christian men being led to their deaths by beheading by members of ISIS. While we know that every day Christians are killed for their faith the images being flashed across our screens has brought this reality home for many of us.

Paul says to us in 1 Corinthians 12 that “The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ . . .If one part suffers, every part suffers with it . . .” (12:12, 26a). The Church, the physical representation of the Body of Christ, is one and when one part suffers we all suffer. When one part is in need, we are all in need. Today are Egyptian Christian brothers and sisters are suffering. Let us join in their grief and let us pray for their deliverance.

Pray not for the armies of this world to be their defender but pray that the Army of God would surround them. In 2 Kings the story is recounted of the King of Aram sending his army to capture and kill Elisha, the prophet of God. Early in the morning the army of the King of Aram surrounded the city of Dotham where the prophet was staying. When the Elisha’s servant when out and saw the enemy’s army he was struck with fear, but Elisha remained calm saying to his servant, “‘Don’t be afraid,’ the prophet answered. ‘Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.’ And Elisha prayed, ‘O LORD, open his eyes so he may see.’ Then the LORD opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha” (6:16-17). When the army of ISIS surrounds Christian brothers and sister, pray their eyes might be opened to see the Army of God coming to their aid.

Pray as they face their moment of death they might “see heaven open and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God” (Acts 7:56) as Stephen did, one of the first martyrs of the church.

Pray. For the Church of God is one church and when one part suffers we all suffer.

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

Saying Thanks

It's Greek

Dear Friends,

Those of us who regularly endure the trauma of social media have probably seen the daily posts of people expressing their thanks in the month of November. Not to be left out, I started to think about those in my life who are long overdue for me to say “thanks” to. And by long I mean, at least ten years overdue.

If you are one of the few who has survived the Biblical Studies major at Northwest Nazarene College (now University) the journey took you though 5 terms of New Testament Greek. While the ranks were large the first day of Greek 1 by the 5th class the trail laid strewn with many bloodied bodies.

For my group we were whittled, beat, and carved down to three. Kevin, Bill and myself. The small class size did occasionally lead to tangents by our professor. It was one of these tangents that is forever engraved in my soul. Our professor, Dr. George Lyons, spent the majority of the class period one morning talking about the challenges of singleness, especially for those in the ministry. He advised us that if we ever wanted to change things then we needed to make changes in our lives. We needed to actually ask a girl out. We needed to live in such a way that made us “interesting” to those of the female persuasion. Now there is just one other detail about our trio you should know. Kevin and Bill were married. I was the only single in the class . . . and I was furious. In all the hours I have spent in the classroom I have never been so angry or humiliated. The lecture was clearly directed at only one person in the room: ME. I left the class never wanting to come back. If I had not been so close to graduation I probably would have walked off campus to never return.

Once I calmed down, my respect for the professor and trust of my classmates, brought me back to the class. But it would take months, actually a few years, for the lecture to fully sink in. When it did, I began to make changes to my life. I can still picture in my mind the day I sat in a dorm room in Larrabie-Morris Hall, while attending a different school, looking out over the Lexington Avenue in Wilmore, Kentucky, recalling the advice from that painful day in Greek and finding in it the courage to ask a girl to take the risk to intentionally spend time together. That girl was Laura, and an infuriating lecture in Williams Hall was the place where the ground for our relationship was prepared.

Thank you Dr. Lyons, I learned many things about life and ministry from you during the three years I spent at NNU. Any success I have in life and ministry is partly due to your influence and my failures are likely the product of my falling asleep in class.

To the others who are reading this message, what about you? Are there people in your life who are ten years or more overdue to hear about the influence they have had on your life? People you should say “Thanks!” to?

What better time could there be than now to send them a message?

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

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