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A Tale of Two Churches

It was years ago, but the impression is still deep within me. I visited a large growing church. There was a great sense of urgency to the work they were doing, a feeling that people’s eternal destiny was at stake, and so they worked. The minimum expectation for the pastoral staff was to work eighty hours a week. I spoke with one staff pastor; he said the only time he saw his kids was in-between services on Sundays; otherwise, he left for work before they got up and came home long after they had gone to sleep. But it was all worth it. The church was growing, and people were being saved.

I visited another large church recently. It is growing rapidly. There is a great sense of urgency that the work they are doing has eternal consequences for people’s destiny. So they rest. Staff are required to take time to pray and rest in Sabbath. From the senior pastor down one day a week, one weekend a month, and one month a year are spent in rest. These days are not vacation days, and they are not days off. They are days spent in study, prayer, and listening to God.

The first church was celebrated. People came from all around to learn how to do ministry. The staff were tired and rushed. People were short with one another. Anger and frustration were just below the surface, but no one could say anything because it was the work of God they were doing. Staff pastors rarely stayed for more than a year or two. Burnout was common. When the lead pastor did finally leave, his years of ministry were celebrated, and in his wake was left unhealth, pain, and broken families that would take years of healing to mend. Was it all worth it?

The second church is celebrated. People come from all around the world to learn how to do ministry. Its staff is alive and joyful. They laugh easily. They practice hospitality and never seem to be rushed. Their lead pastor recently retired. His years of ministry were celebrated. He still hangs around the place, looked upon as a beloved leader. In his wake is a new generation of leaders full and excited. Was it all worth it?

God creates all that there is. Genesis 1 tells the story. The climactic scene is of God creating humanity. When the work is done, he steps back and says, “it was very good” (vs. 31). Then he commands that on the seventh day, they are to rest. Humanity’s first task was to rest because God is holy. To rest because God has completed the work. For Adam and Eve to have worked on the seventh day would have been to say to God, “You’ve done some great work here, very impressive, now let me just make a few adjustments, and it will be perfect.” It is absurd to think of them actually saying such a thing to God, but we do it regularly when we ignore God’s command for Sabbath and rest. In Matthew 6, Jesus tells us not to worry about what we will eat, drink, wear, or even about tomorrow “For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well” (vs. 32-22, NIV).

What are we seeking? What are we chasing after?

Blessings,
Stephen

Yes, the Zombies Will Come

Face in the trees

Dear Friends,

Why do we need Sabbath rest? Because a zombie apocalypse is coming and we had better be ready for it. If we all knew in the months ahead our city was going to be overrun by zombies we would begin today to prepare for it. We would take up an extensive running training regimen and we would give our neighbor lost of ice cream and chips (just as an insurance to make sure we could outrun them). Only a fool, or our neighbor, would not make plans to escape. Engaging in the weekly rhythm of Sabbath is preparation for when those moments of stress, worry, brokenness, weariness, sickness, running, and confusion come. We all will have those times. We can’t avoid being human and the human condition, but we can be prepared for when it does come.

Last week, with the return of The Milk Can, we started a series of posts on the need for Sabbath rest in our lives. The week continues our pondering on our need for rest.

In his book, 24/6, Matthew Sleeth identifies at least six areas of our life that we need rest from. This week we will look at the first three and then the last three next week.

Why do we need Sabbath rest?

We need rest from being hurt
Life and work have their way of taking their toll on us physically and emotionally. We understand that when a bone is broken our bodies need time to heal. It is no less true when our souls are beaten and broken. We need the practice of rest to heal the invisible and visible tragedies of life. In Matthew 12, Jesus offers these words of encouragement to those who would come to him. “A bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out, till he has brought justice through to victory. In his name, the nations will put their hope” (vs. 20-21, NIV). Do you feel like a broken reed that is about to be crushed? Jesus offers to us Sabbath as a place to heal.

We need rest from heavy labors
This may seem rather obvious. “Manual labor has its own reminder to stop. One can only move bricks so long before muscles cry out for rest. Unfortunately, other types of labor may not remind us of the need to lay down our burdens. What about answering e-mails, going to meetings, and working with customers” (Sleeth 76). For many of us when we leave the office our work does not stay there. It follows us home on our phones and in our social media feeds. Jesus invites all those who are burdened by physical and mental heavy labor to come to him and find rest. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30, NIV).

We need rest from the pace of the world
Few would argue against the notion that our world is moving at an incredible pace, and seems to be getting faster every day. I know no one admits to actually watching NASCAR but it does give us a good illustration of why we need to slow down. The basic goal and premise of car racing is pretty simple: Drive left and when everyone stops be at the front of the line. If you do this you will get to spin around in circles smoking your tires and stand on top of your car while getting an oversized trophy for your efforts. When I was a kid I assumed that NASCAR drivers drove their cars like I did racing in Pole Position: with the throttle pressed all the way down through the entire race. Do you know what will happen to race car drivers if they do that? Their engines blow up. A driver has to continually monitor the temperature of their engine. Sometimes they will push their engines into the red zone to make a pass or block another driver. But they can’t stay there. They have to pull back, let their engines cool, put the margin back into their car’s engine so they have the capability to go back into the red if needed.

Our lives can be a lot like car racing. At one time or another, all of us will find our lives running in the red zone. A project is due. A co-worker is out sick and the work has to be done. A crisis hits us. We’ll have four weddings and a funeral all in the same week. We are running at full throttle and things are heating up. We can do this for a short time if needed, but if we don’t pull back and put margin back into our lives we will explode. The cycle of Sabbath gives a natural season of rest and cooling to our lives. It teaches us how to take our foot off the throttle and gives us the margin to run in the red when we need.

Jesus frequently demonstrated this in his life. The crowds had their ways of finding him. People brought their expectations, their sickness, and their needs to him to give healing and life. In Mark 6, precisely because the crowds keep coming and they are all running in the red zone, Jesus tells his disciples to come away with him and get rest. “Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, ‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest'” (vs. 31, NIV). Sabbath is a coming away with Jesus to find the needed rest.

As you think about these first I wonder, what do you need rest from?

Blessings,
Stephen

Running at Full Throttle

Welcome back!

I know, you may be saying, “But I didn’t go anywhere!” You didn’t but I did. Over the last year, blogging has become like a hermit in a cave. Easter, though, is a season of resurrection and it is time again for me to resurrect The Milk Can. The Milk Can is a regular blog to supplement our ministry and leader development at Hope Church in Galesburg. I know that many of you, though, don’t attend our church. To you, I give the privilege of listening in. Your feedback and comments help to refine and make us all so much better.

In the Christian church, Easter is often a season of celebration and chaos. Many of us spend the weeks leading up to this Holy Week in frantic preparation. Then Sunday comes, we celebrate with friends and family. Ours was great! This was one of the best Easters for me personally in all my years of ministry. (Much of the credit for the success goes to the members of our worship team whose week in and week out dedication is easily taken for granted.) Then Monday comes and you know what happens? We keep our foot on the throttle, it may not be Easter anymore but another Sunday is coming and all those things we put off while we were getting ready for Easter now demand we address them. This may describe the reality of pastors but it is not really any different than the reality of many of our lives. Americans are running with our foot jammed on the throttle we are busy and stressed. It’s become a badge of honor for us to say we are “busy.” We fear being thought of as lazy. Full throttle living is taking its toll on us. In a recent article in the New York Times, “55 percent of adults said they had experienced stress during ‘a lot of the day’ prior” and “About 45 percent of the Americans surveyed said they had felt ‘a lot’ of worry the day before.”

At creation, God established cycles and seasons to life. Even if we didn’t choose to rest or take a Sabbath, nature forced us to rest. When the sun went down, the work had to stop. When the winter storms blew the pace of life slowed. To get to the next town over might take a day’s journey on foot. Even a generation ago work was slowed. When we walked out of our offices the work stayed where it was until the next morning. Now it follows us home in our pockets on our phones. TV stations played the national anthem and went off the air. Businesses closed at night and often on Sunday as well.

Those days are long gone. But our need for Sabbath rest remains. Today we must choose to change our lives and live differently.

Finding the rest we need begins with a question: “What is it that only you can do?”

Your answer to the question will focus priorities and establish the places of healing and reconciliation that Sabbath can bring.

At Hope, we are diving deep into a Summer of Rest as we explore the applications of Sabbath for each of our lives. Over the weeks ahead The Milk Can will give further insights as well.

Blessings,
Stephen

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