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Faith Over Fear

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As we seek to understand and find the best platforms to support the people of Hope, the church Laura and I pastor, through this very unique time in our country, I have made the decision to make use of The Milk Can as a place to share and post our regular updates to our congregation. With that said, please know you will start to receive more “in house” messages than in the past, and more frequent ones. If you feel like your inbox is getting clogged please know it is okay to unsubscribe. At the bottom of every message are the instructions. Stay safe, stay well, never lose hope in the Kingdom of God. – Stephen

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Dear Friends,

In Joshua 3 and 4 the people of Israel, after forty years of wandering in the desert, walk across the Jordan River on dry ground into the Promised Land for the first time as a nation. Before the waters returned to their flow Joshua chose twelve men to each go into the center of the river and carry out a large rock. These stones were set up as a memorial to future generations of God’s faithfulness to his people. Faith is not an abstract wish or unfounded hope that things will become better. Faith is founded in experience. When future generations were tempted to question if God really cared about his people they could always look back to the twelve stones to remind them that their faith in God had a solid foundation. At least that was the plan. We know that in a short while the people lost their memory of God and turned to their own ways. They doubt the God who delivered them and placed their dependence in other nations, other gods, and themselves.

Daily we hear the message that these are unprecedented times for our nation. I do believe these are unprecedented times for these generations, but they are not unprecedented times for our nation and for humanity. We have faced times of scarcity in the past. We have felt the weariness and tension of extended anxiety. We have felt helpless before. We have faced sickness and death. We have known darkness, fear, and doubt. And we have experienced hope and light on the other side. We have known that God is good and loving. 

I believe, part of the challenge we are facing today, as a nation, is that we have lost the collective memory of the faithfulness of God. The twelve stones have become worn with time and their story forgotten that God is faithful in the days, weeks, months, and years of waiting. I know we all want to get back to normal. I believe we are only just beginning this journey through darkness. There are those, though, who can teach us how to walk it. Some around us have stories to tell us. To give us hope. Many refugees know what it is like to suffer long and experience the provision of God. Families who have sent their sons and daughters off to war know the unrelenting anxiety and worry waiting for that which they dread the most. They can teach us the experience of joy in the morning and God’s mercy in loss. And there are others who can teach us. Perhaps even you have a story you would be willing to share with others of faith in the darkest of times?

Before I close this message I want to suggest one book to you to read. The book is The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom. It is a story of hard faith in the long dark days of WWII.

Blessings,
Stephen

Again

ShadowsWell it has happened again. Another pastor has fallen from their ministry position because of an extramarital affair and apparent struggle with pornography. This time it was Bob Coy from the Calvary Chapel Ft. Lauderdale Church.

I want to say right up front that I have never met Bob Coy and know very, very little about the details of his situation. Since he lives in Florida, and I have never been there, I cannot even say with certainty that he and I have ever been in the same state at the same time.

Mr. Coy is certainly not the first, nor will he likely be the last, leader to be caught in this trap.  It does leave us wondering why did this happen? Why didn’t he seek help before everything fell apart? How could he throw away everything so easily? Much has been written in books on why men engage in extramarital affairs and I will not attempt to enter into the psychology of it all here but I do want to drill down one issue.  Maybe one reason he failed is because the church became too big, too big for him to fail.  At least that is perhaps how it felt. And to some degree it is probably a true statement.

Now before you think this is a statement against large churches, it is not. We all have something in our lives we say is “too big” to risk if we let light shine into our darkness. Don’t we? Our job, marriage, kids, community involvement, reputation, self-esteem, mortgage payment, car payment, vacation plans, career plans, building program, and on and on it goes.

There will always be something. It is part of the lie that satan tells us and we believe. The truth is, it is never as bad as we think and the sooner we deal with things the better. The issues will be bigger tomorrow, today is the day to let light shine into our darkness.

Here are some questions to ponder:

  • What steps have I taken in my life to put up boundaries to protect myself against temptation?
  • Do I have someone in my life (other than my spouse) that I trust and am accountable to?
  • If someone was to come to me with their struggles and darkness, could I be trusted to love them and walk with them or would I tear them down and betray the trust?

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

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